C is for celebrate
For many people celebrating their birthday is a one day event. For my sister, it has always been a month long. This year I took a page from her book and celebrated the entire month of March for my birthday.
There was a party, with cake and guests and everything.
It was held at a local historic Stuart hotel.
The birthday fell in the middle of the month. The days leading up to it and following it were also days of celebration.
There was a day spent with my grandchildren from out of state. There was dinner with a friend. I slept in late one day, just because I could and it was my birthday month.
Not every day was a big huge celebration. But, everyday there was something to celebrate. It was just a success, I’m continuing it in April.
Celebrating every day means paying attention to the day. It means paying attention when someone buys you a soda, or holds the door open for you, or you get an unexpected day to do nothing.
Taking the time to notice what is going on, and celebrate the good things helps keep us living, really living as opposed to existing, in the present.
Following the lead of Vidya, at Lady In Read Writes (love that title), and posting two posts in one. She is also doing the UBC Challenge as well as the A to Z. She posted for three days in one post. I’ll limit it to two in one post. Next up, the letter:
D is for Dream
You might wonder how we can live in the present if we’re busy dreaming? Because dreams lead to goals and goals are something to strive to achieve. When we dream we’re reaching higher and further.
Having a dream means we live in the present and go forward and rise. Without a dream, we stop and sink. Without a dream we are so mired in yesterday that we can’t acknowledge and appreciate today.
Dreams help us live in the present. Dreams help us tap into our creativity, we look for new, different, sometimes innovative ways to make our dream a reality.
Whether your dream is to go to Disneyland, or on a cruise, whether it’s to climb a rock wall, or spend time at the ocean, or whatever your dream is, finding a way to reach it, keeps us grounded and focused and living in the present.
How about you? Do you celebrate your birthday?
Have you reached one of your dreams?
How do you celebrate your steps toward your dream?